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Nayo's African Dreams

Nayo is a proud young African woman, whose soulful tones and heartfelt narrative lyrics have earned her the label “the new Sade”.

However, despite finding the flattering comparison, this 26-year-old relative newcomer to the ambient club scene cannot see the connection herself, calling it “bizarre”.

The ”new Sade” phrase was coined by a newspaper who jumped on her talent earlier this year, when she was causing somewhat of her stir on the underground dance floors thanks to the various remixes of her single ”African Girl”.

One version landed her a number 11 spot on the UK club chart and she even received the blessing of the most hallowed name in dance music, the Ministry of Sound, who chose to include the track on their ”HedKandi Serve Chilled” compilation CD.

The song that grabbed the attention of the industry’’s important movers and shakers was born out of tragedy.

”African Girl” was the culmination of a roller-coaster three years, which began when Nayo’’s father died in 2004 and she was forced to return to Nigeria.

At the time, Nayo was living a happy-go-lucky existence as a “Starbucks Latte girl” in California, busy pursuing a career in song writing, but unsure of what path she wanted to take as an artist, crossing over musical genres from pop to rock to reggae.

Once back in her homeland, Nayo began discovering her musical ancestry, listening to the soulful tones of Sade and the politically charged lyrics of Fela Kuti and Bob Marley.

Their words and strong cultural references inspired Nayo to transform her tragedy into something positive and she began to discover her “sense of self” as a “beautiful women from a beautiful continent full of beautiful people”.

The experience made Nayo realise she had something important to say as a singer, not just as songwriter, and effectively helped her find her musical direction - ambient soul.

With a renewed determination and sense of purpose she relocated to the UK - following a brief return to the US where she released the catchy tune ”Party Fever”, which broke into the Billboard Club Play Chart in late 2005 - and her music started to reflect her African heritage.

It was in London that she approached producers the Misfits - Pete Glenister and Deni Lew - who immediately saw the potential in this upbeat, vivacious character.

Glenister said: “She had a really distinctive voice that had not been heard for quite a while so I was interested immediately. I also thought she had a really interesting mix to her sound, a sort of African feel with a slinky groove.”

With a hot team behind her, Nayo was able to hone her style and ”African Girl” was released to widespread acclaim, followed by a whirlwind few months of press, praise and performances.

Last month, Nayo sparked further interest with the release of her new single ”Desert Storm”.

Described as “an ode to the Sahara” and featuring strong influences of jazz, trip hop and bozzanova, the track proved even more successful and made it to number four on the UK club chart.

With a go-getter attitude and an unmovable spirit, 2008 is certain to see Nayo’’s star continue to rise. Her debut album ”African Girl” is set for release in February and a stalwart fanbase are currently being drummed up on a comprehensive tour of UK universities.

Nayo may not entirely understand the label of the “new Sade”, but there is one phrase that she would readily admit sums up her attitude perfectly - carpe diem.

Here she talks about her beloved Nigeria, how music helped her grieve for her father and her celebrity crushes.

Q: You have been referred to as the new Sade, do you take that as a compliment or are you fed up of it?

A: Oh absolutely! I find it a compliment.

Q: Was she an inspiration to you growing up?

A: She actually wasn”t. I discovered Sade when I was much older.

Q: Why do you think people made the comparison?

A: I absolutely do not know. It’’s the most bizarre comparison. But it seems to be a constant. People watch my shows and they say “Sade”, people get my CDs and say “Sade”. I think I am such a ruffian compared to her!

Q: It has been quite a crazy year for you. Has there been one stand out moment for you?

A: I think the highlight was when my press guy told me to go and get a newspaper and I opened it up and the music magazine fell out and I just saw my photo right there! Nayo from Nigeria and being the new Sade, I just wanted to die, and I was thinking are these guys drunk, what is this about, it is too much for me!

Q: What do you miss most about Nigeria?

A: Oh my god, I miss having help! Having a driver and a butler, having my mother cook me special meals. Having somebody to just take care of me, I guess, because that’’s what I had in Nigeria.

Q: You moved to California to study chemistry at university (Nayo later switched to a business with finance degree) how did the US compare to Nigeria?

A: I had a stint in the UK briefly too, to study for my A-levels and then I moved to the US for college.

It was very different, I moved there because of my passion for music. I had to live on my own for the first time. It was great, I was in Los Angeles, great weather!

Q: You father wanted you to become a doctor, but you chose to follow a music career, did that every cause any problems?

A: It didn”t cause problems, no major problems, he was just concerned about my future and how music was going to help me financially.

You know, unless you are a big star, music doesn”t cover the bills. Money gives you a life with all these choices, you can pick up and go for random holidays and be comfortable.

Q: You went back to Nigeria in 2004 when your father sadly passed away, did music help you grieve then?

A: It did help, because I started listening to music from back home which helped me find my musical direction, ambient soul.

I had been doing all sorts but never really knew what path I would take as an artist. I wanted to be a songwriter, I was doing a lot of writing, from soft rock to pop to reggae. But going back to Nigeria I listened to Bob Marley, I listened to Sade, and they were very conscious of their ancestry and I was inspired by them, really.

Publishers had often told me they liked my voice, but it’’s one thing to have a nice voice and another to have something to sing about. These artists helped me rediscover my roots.

Losing my father catapulted the drive in that life is really short and you have to take your one shot now.

I thought I am an African girl - this is who I am. I acknowledge my sense of self and I was like, ”I”m going to talk about my life as an African girl, growing up in various places of the world.” I learned to just appreciate and love who I am.

Q: Did you feel you lost of sense of self in Los Angeles?

A: In Los Angeles I was just some Starbucks latte girl, who hung out at the beach doing nothing pretty much, just having fun. Living in Los Angeles is like living in a bubble. When reality hits and you go back and see people suffering, who see how fortunate you are, you take the positive from it or you let the negative break you down.

Q: What do you make of Los Angeles party girls like Lindsay Lohan and Paris Hilton?

A: Well, a lot of people in Los Angeles are like them, so I cannot judge them. Unfortunately Paris and Lindsay are the pin-up girls but a lot of people who I hung out with from college are like that. Obviously Lindsay has worked really hard actually to get to where she is.

Paris works as well it just seems really easy for her because she has money. But some people have money and do nothing with it. There is something to be said for going from one step to the next. People just look at the negative not the positive.

Q: Do you have time for romance?

A: I don”t. I have hung out with a couple of people, and gone on a few dates. But it’’s always the time and schedule and I don”t have time to share my life.

Q: Is there a difference between English men and American men?

A: Oh absolutely. Englishmen are so polite and so proper and dress really well. American guys are just different, I hung out with a lot of surfer boys when I was in Los Angeles.

Q: What about African men?

A: Ah, Africa men, people like my father. The king of the castle, I love my African men. When I am with African men they make me feel like a complete African woman. He makes me the queen.

Q: Is there a type of man you go for?

A: Confidence. I am intrigued by intelligence, I don”t like pretty boys, because I feel quirky boys have more to offer. From my experience pretty boys go, ”Oh I”m good looking” and think that’’s enough, but for me there has to be more.

Confidence, intelligence and hard work are all important in a man.

Q: Have you got any celebrity crushes?

A: I love that guy who was in ”The Motorcycle Diaries” - Gael García Bernal. He is lovely, I love him, he is so beautiful.

I also have an eternal crush on Leonardo DiCaprio, I have loved Leo since ”Titantic” and he does good movie too. He lives in Malibu so I see him around, I have never approached him though, he has always had a girlfriend.

Q: What is your most prized possession?

A: Family photos, and my master recordings. That’’s pretty much it!

Q: Do you have any guilty pleasures?

A: I like to eat very late at night, which is very bad. I don”t have time to eat in the day because I am really busy and then I have midnight feasts.

Q: Do you have any New Year resolutions?

A: I want to try and enjoy work, enjoy the moment, because time just goes past and you never appreciate stuff.

I want to enjoy the people I work with. I want to be more appreciative and try to just take time for myself, because that is very important, because I just go on and on and on and never know when to stop.

Q: What is on your Christmas list?

A: Oh, I haven”t got that far yet. I don”t believe in Christmas trees and Santa. There is no Santa, it’’s a lie! I was never fooled into thinking Santa would bring me anything!

Q: Who would you love to work with?

A: I would love to work with Alicia Keys, she is so inspired, every time I see or hear something from her I want to write something! I would like to work with producer Mano Chau and I would love to work with Damon Albarn.

And of course, Seal has been a huge inspiration. I always thought I would do a duet with him - that would be the ultimate because I love his songs.

Q: How will you judge your success?

A: When I am fulfilled.

Q: When will you be fulfilled?

A: Fulfilment is something I strive for because I am just never content. When I lost my father, my perspective changed a lot on life, on how short it is and how if you really want something you have to go after it. The day that the lights go out isn”t your decision. So as long as the lights are on I am going to keep going for it. Maybe when I am ready to take my last breath I will be fulfilled!

Q: Can you sum Nayo up in three words?

A: Optimistic, go getter and I”ll never stop!

By:  Melissa                        Source

Martine Sitbon Large Tote

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By:  Kelly                        Source

Are You Missing the Message?

Just two crafting days remain before Christmas. As I wrap the last of the homemade gifts for my children I begin to tackle the gift I'm making for my cat, Maya. A cat bed.

JoAnn Fabrics was pretty quiet tonight. All those who are making things are frantically putting on the finishing touches, not starting something new.

Joann's mails a lot of coupons and after making my purchase, I had several coupons remaining. I turned to the person behind me in line and asked if she could use a couple coupons. Her face lit up: "I need a coupon," she said. "This item I'm buying is $30 without a coupon. You are really saving me a lot!"

"My pleasure, Merry Christmas," I said.

The fear that you see in people's eyes as they dare to name the holiday that is about to be celebrated on December 25, amazes me. I have no trouble wishing my friends Happy Hanukkah. And my Jewish friends freely wish me a Merry Christmas.

In an effort to become so politically correct as to avoid offending ANYONE, we have missed the point of the message.

I read a short story not long ago in a book call Mini Moments for Christmas. It tells the tale of the Wright Brothers.

Orville and Wilbur Wright had tried repeatedly to fly a heavier-than-air craft. Finally on December 17, 1903, it happened. They managed to fly their plane about 120 feet! They actually flew! Elated, they had done what had never been done by anyone before. They wired a telegram with this news back home to their sister Katherine: "We have actually flown 120 feet. STOP. Will be home for Christmas. STOP."

She ran down the street all excited and shoved the telegram, which was the news scoop of the new century, at the city editor of the local daily paper in Dayton, Ohio. The next day he had headlined the story like this:

LOCAL BICYCLE MERCHANTS TO BE HOME FOR CHRISTMAS!

Talk about missing the real story.

Are you missing the story?

Move beyond the real reason for this holiday season and think about your business.

How often do you miss the real message behind what a colleague communicates, your boss dictates or your customers desire?

Are you really hearing the message being communicated?

Deborah Chaddock Brown

Writer, Seamstress

By:  Deborah Brown                        Source

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Garden Party Done Right - Chanel's Camelia Necklace

Anyway, I”m still suffering from a nasty ear infection and can hardly hear in my left ear, so if you happen to disagree with me, that”s the ear that won”t be listening. Besides, I”m clearly on some extended nature kick….

By:  Ms. Jewel Snob                        Source

Amazing Sculptures From Automobile Parts

Artist I Ahmed created these impressive sculptures using mostly automobile parts. It started as a hobby during his teens and it was during his tenure as a welder he discovered his hidden talent at the age of 19. And finally the finishing touches to his art came during his long journeys in ships when he joined the Merck & Company, an oil exploration firm. His works have been handcrafted and sculptured with intricate assembling.

(Image credit: affordindianart).

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Emeshel’s Nubia Fragrance

Emeshel, founded in 2004, is known the world over for the design and creation of one of the world’s premium and most expensive collections in crystal and glass art.  Emeshel is making a big impression in the U.S. with a new design and showroom in one of my favorite cities, Miami. 

With Valentine’s Day coming up, there’s no better time for an innocent field trip to Emeshel to visit the exclusive collection of jewelry and accessories.  While you’re there, take a whiff of one of Emeshel’s five new fine fragrances.  Each is color coded in a 3.4 oz, gorgeously designed jeweled bottle.  The bottle represents the human sexual organ (vahjayjay?) but there’s nothing obscene and you’d have to know that. 

The bottle makes a very good impresssion with its weight and style but what really counts is the scent.  I’ve been wearing Nubia Yellow and love it!  No surprise to regular readers as I love citrus scents.  The twist of bergamot and sweet orange put this one over the top and have Nubia in the best perfume placement in my household for fast and easy access. It lasted on me about 3 hours which is really good and the more I sniffed for the scent the more I wanted another spritz so I’ve been indulging myself (and those around me) with it.  Here are all five fragrances…

Nubia Yellow brings together the scents of refreshing lemon juice, fresh citrus and limes with a fragrance combining oil of bergamot with sweet orange from Brazil.
Nubia Red evokes the delicate aroma of a sensual Odalisque, with hints of tangerine, vanilla, blackcurrant and musk.
Nubia Green portrays the bouquet of a newly mowed lawn, green leaves and an intensely crisp lemon combined with refreshing dew.
Nubia Rose implies freshly brewed ice tea, oil of bergamot, grapefruit and orange — combining the aromatic fragrances of a modern-day metropolis with a metallic elegance.
Nubia Violet brings the fresh, waggish notes of the fruit-bearing harvest, complete with ripe grapes, sun-kissed blackberries, mulberries and hints of green apple, peach and sea breeze.

So where’d the name come from? Emeshel named the line NUBIA to pay homage to the Egyptian kings who first introduced fragrances during ancient burial rituals circa 3500 B.C.  From the press release:

…named after the ancient state of northeast Arabia once occupied by the Egyptian kings. Also part of the newly launched Emeshel Beauty line is the company’s first cologne for men, RAJUL, named after the ancient Arabic word for “Man.”

The Emeshel gallery is located at 3930 NE 2nd Avenue in Miami’s Design District.  This is surely the most exciting fragrance launch in a long time and  there’s a skincare line set to launch in 2009! 

For the ultimate online sexy surveys be sure to visit I AM Nubia to know what type of seductive woman you are.  Send your loved one to Do You Measure Up to find out if he’s truly a world-class lover.

Emeshel’s NUBIA has been developed in collaboration with one of Europe’s finest award-winning perfumers, Zsolt Zolyomi is one of the few artists in perfumery to earn a certificate from the world-renowned School for Luxury Cosmetics Development in Versailles, France, founded by Jean-Paul Guerlain. Zolyomi graduated from the school’s international division and is currently considered one of the world’s leading creators of “haute couture” perfume today.

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Jourdan Dunn and Liya Kebede

source: TFS/Luxx

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Inside there is an article called “Sam”s Club” on makeup artist Sam Fine with an accompanying editorial featuring Liya Kebede, Chanel Iman and Arlenis got snapped for the “Meet the Boyfriends” spread, while “Kicking It” and “The Godfather” spreads features Naomi Campbell among others.

I”m looking forward to getting this one in the mail. Your thoughts?

ETA: More photos

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A Little Boot

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Not very practical, but who says fashion always to be? It’s just a piece of pretty that can make you smile whenever you look at it….or you can give it to the girl who has everything, but still wants more.

By:  Del                         Source

Re-Purposed Cycle Art

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She is well versed in painting, murals, airbrush, scenic installations, photography, sculpture, welding, and woodcarving.
At her site, you find a gallery of her acclaimed metal sculpture pieces and airbrush paint works - link.

By:  Venus                        Source

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